Ah, the INFPs. Often referred to as the sweethearts of the MBTI typology, they are anything but boring. A classic example of this is the INFP 4w3.
In this article, we’ll talk about this personality type, how they are different from other INFPs, and what you can expect from them.
If this interests you, then stick around.
How is the INFP 4w3 Different from Typical INFPs
Typical INFPs are usually described as sweet, kind, diplomats, or mediators. They are helpful and sensitive to criticism. These INFPs are usually type 4 and type 9.
The similarities that the INFP 4w3 has with typical INFPs are limited. First, they predominantly identify as type 4. However, because they have type 3 as their wing, their traits are a bit different.
First, INFP 4w3s are much more independent. They care about their career and success much more than typical INFPs. Normally, INFPs are more interested in following their passion when making career choices. This personality type is more interested in being successful.
Because they are independent, they are not overly concerned with keeping the peace as an INFP 9w8 would be. Instead, they employ tact to get ahead when needed. However, their independence is much more important to them.
Here’s a table that shows the major differences between INFP 4w3s and other INFPs.
| INFP 4w3 | Typical INFPs |
| More Ambitious | More Passionate |
| Craves Independence | More of a people pleaser |
| Elite Fashion sense | Good fashion sense with a preference for comfort |
| Self-Absorbed | Low self-confidence |
Strengths of the INFP 4w3
1. Ambitious
The first strength here is their ambition. This is mostly driven by their wing. INFP 4w3s have a clear path to success. They know what they want in life and strive to get there.
While this is true, how strong their drive is will often depend on their wing. Regardless, this personality type will show more ambition than normal INFPs.
However, their core desire remains the same. They want to be unique and independent.
2. Persuasive
Persuasion is an art that INFP 4w3s will master over the course of their lives. It comes easily to them. Here’s why. INFPs are always inclined towards diplomacy or mediating.
With the addition of type 3 as their wing, this superpower takes another dimension. They can now identify moments or people who will be helpful to them.
Type 3 uses its wit and charm to get close to this person and persuade them when it suits their purpose.
While this new set of abilities is remarkable, it is tied to the strength of their wing.
3. Good Leadership Skills
INFP 4w3s are great leaders. Their personal values and need to be successful make them excellent motivators. People know what to expect from them as they are fairly stable.
Thus, people naturally enjoy working with this personality type. If they are mature, they are one of the best leaders you can find.
4. Great Fashion Style
Type 4 wants to be unique. Type 3 wants to be successful and look successful. Further, type 4 and type 3 are two types that are acutely aware of their self-image or appearance.
Thus, INFP 4w3s will have a wonderful sense of fashion. Their dresses will be distinct from others and stand out as elegant.
If you want to learn one or two things about fashion, they are your best bet.
5. Creative
INFPs are very creative. They have vivid imaginations and are very curious people. Add type 4 to the equation and their creativity is heightened. They will especially excel at writing, poetry, design, and music.
Anything that requires creativity, emotion, and warmth will come easily to them. It’s not a surprise that the most famous writers in history are INFPs. A good example of this is William Shakespeare.
6. Better Work Ethic
INFP 4w3s have a better work ethic when compared to other INFPs. This is probably down to their wing. Because type 3 wants to be successful, they are willing to put in the work that’s needed.
Type 4 is especially known for not having the energy to do as much as they want. However, this wing reduces this issue.
The extent to which this applies will depend on the strength of their wing.
Weaknesses of the INFP 4w3
1. Self-Absorbed
Like with all type 4, the problem of being self-absorbed rears its head here. INFP 4w3s will struggle with being in their bubble. They might become so focused on their problems and believe that they have it worse. Or they might start to believe they are special.
The once warm and happy INFP 4w3 can begin to seem selfish.
2. Struggle with Identity
Type 4 is all about finding their identity. Type 3 is all about being who the other person wants them to be at the moment. This creates a problem for this type.
While they are eagerly trying to sort out who they are, they are constantly taking two steps back by seeking validation from others.
Their need to seem successful can stunt their journey to self-awareness.
3. Sensitive
Type 4 is emotional. INFPs are feelers. This just creates a flood of emotions. While each person will display these emotions in different ways, you can expect INFP 4w3s to be sensitive.
They might not react well to statements that question their values or their success. They might not do well with criticism and feedback.
This can put a strain on their relationship with their boss or employees.
4. Struggle Between Independence and People-Pleasing
The struggle between seeking independence follows their struggle with identity. Type 3 won’t mind doing things that they don’t especially like if they get what they want.
Type 4s want to be free from those sorts of things. If their wing is especially strong, this creates an internal struggle.
This might hold them back from taking a decisive stand in their lives.
Growth Tips for the INFP 4w3
- Sometimes, your problems are not big as you think. Take a step back and smell the roses
- Understand that your needs and preferences come first. Never replace that with what others expect.
- Sometimes, constructive feedback might be the missing puzzle. It’s not always a personal attack.
